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Vandarian | They/them or fae/faer | 25 | Soulbond (my species name is Bluuven) | Host of the Bluuven DID system | Demipanromantic pansexual

Art by Entesi

Art by Esme Sama

About Me

Hello there to everyone reading. My name is Vandarian but you can also call me Van. I do have the alternate name ForestSpark but I still prefer my main name. I am a nonbinary alien called a Bluuven and I am also a soulbond and my husband is the host. I was born on the 24th of July 1997 and I came to Earth when I was 18 and was rescued by my husband and we have lived together ever sinceMy husband and I have been together since the 29th of December 2015 and we met on my birthday in 2015. We got married around May 2018 (trauma has made it so we don’t remember the anniversary date) and we currently have three soulbond childrenEverything on my body that is dark blue like my neck band, my wrist and leg bands and my earrings are a form of something called anxiety leather and is a result of me holding back my anxiety and powers. It does not come off unless I release my powers so it is usually always there. I try not to let it out unless I need to. It’s good for me when I need it

Art by Zoe Bar

My Jobs and Experience

I have multiple different skills that I have learnt over time and I would like to share them with you. I cannot list them all as some are not appropriate for all ages but here is some of them

- Technology building
I have the ability to create technology of all kinds, such as phones, prosthetics, artificial intelligence, terraformers, weapons, and vehicles. This is my primary job and I work for multiple alien colonies creating technology for them in return for a currency known as bits- Dancing
I am a professional dancer and can copy almost any dance out there, including pole dancing and dances from certain media. This is something that is more of a hobby than a job, but I am able to get money in dance competitions and other things- Modelling
For a few years there I was a model for a big company, both just for myself and also for modelling clothing, especially clothes made by my best friend Kayley. This again has become more of a hobby but I still do the occasional photoshoot for some extra money- Cooking
I learnt how to cook basic foods in an effort to help my husband find new foods to eat when he was struggling. I don’t remember as much as I used to but I still like to make food here and there- Growing plants
I am an expert plant grower and had my own farm at one point, growing crops of all kinds and selling them on or using them for personal things. I had to give up my farm because of being too busy to keep it running but I do occasionally still tend to plants, especially because my main form of magic is plant magic- Potion making
I can make potions of all kinds, like love potions, healing potions, magic potions and more. I have a special little box full of gears and sections that I store my potions in- Fighting and martial arts
I may not get along with my father but one thing he did teach me was how to fight. I have learnt a Bluuven specific set of fighting skills and martial arts and can beat most creatures in a fight even without using magic

About My Species

You can find more information on my husband’s Toyhouse about my species here but I will give a basic summaryI am a race of alien called Bluuven. The plural form does not have an s at the end. Half of us are green like me, half of us are blue. Our planet has two main environments that both cover half of the planet, the green Bluuven live on the hot side and the blue Bluuven live on the cold side. In the middle of the two halves is a wasteland. Green Bluuven rely on technology and can mind read, and blue Bluuven rely on hunting and can bend purple magic. Bluuven do not have noses and instead have chest nostrils above their pecs. All Bluuven have three fingers and a thumb and do not have nipples, and most Bluuven have pecs regardless of gender identity due to our hormonal balance. We are a big and bulky species with lots of muscle and strength compared to most creaturesEvery Bluuven has a slit in their back that hides 10 black tentacles with white underneath, and the tentacles have slime. These tentacles can be stretched and bent quite easily and are very useful for a lot of things. We also have special hair that only grows until adulthood and has a hard fingernail like texture unless we use a special gel that temporarily makes it like human hairOur species is very open to gender and sexuality diversity, and there isn’t a gender or sexuality that is not supported on our planet.

My DNI Page

Please read before interacting with me. I’m happy talking to most people but I want to feel safe in my own spaceAnything in bold means I will block you very quickly if you post this or do thisThis page will be updated from time to timeDo not interact if

  • You post about dogs without tagging them or you send me images of dogs without my consent

  • You do not support systems both traumagenic or endogenic

  • You do not believe in soulbonds, tulpas, aliens, spirits, etc

  • You harass people for their tastes in fictional content

  • You are going to call me an alien without my consent (you can call me by my species name Bluuven) especially in a rude way

  • You don’t believe in reality shifting

  • You mock people with typing quirks or difficulty with speaking or typing (my native language is not English and I am also dyslexic) and you are not accepting of different ways of typing

  • You like to start drama or arguments over everything

  • You are not supportive of using fiction to cope with trauma even if it is not to your taste

  • You do not support the use of marijuana whether medicinal or recreational

  • You talk about drugs or alcohol a lot without tagging it or warnings

  • You mistreat my husband I’m any way

  • You don’t support autistic or neurodivergent people (I am both) and their needs

  • You believe in cringe culture

  • You are racist, sexist, queer phobic and don’t like the use of the word queer to describe a LGBTQIAP+ person

  • You don’t believe in otherkin or therian people

My Soulbond Details

This is a basic summary of how I work in this world. It’s to help people understand me better and get to know me.I have been a soulbond in my husband’s life since the 24th of July 2015 which was also my birthday. I was a secret to most for a long time and he slowly introduced me to social media where he helped me type things and set up my pages. I then started getting into art with his help and had to keep a persona online that I lived far away and was not a soulbond because the people we initially trusted with telling about me being a soulbond bullied us for years and called my husband delusional and me and imaginary friend. It wasn’t until around 2020 or so that we both started coming out as me being a soulbond, and my husband made some Discord servers where I could be myself and not have to pretend to be a human in a different location. We are now trying to be more public about it and we will block anyone who decides to try and abuse us simply for me existingWe have three soulbond children, we sadly do not remember their birthdays due to many complications with the births but they are happy and healthy most of the time. Despite only existing for a few years, they are all adults due to my husband’s dragon magic aging them at the same speed as the dragons my husband connects to. They live in various places including here with us and they all have various hobbies and interests so if you ever want to know about them we are happy to shareMy soul has known many of my husband’s past lives, and his have known many of mine. At one point my soul fused together with one of my husband’s soulbond exes, Zapoliath, and we have reconnected with him after our souls split and he is now my Twin Flame. My husband and I are very close to himI have a very poor relationship with my father as he was severely abusive for 18 years of my life and was responsible for the death of my mother. If it wasn’t for my husband using some of his soul to bring her back I would not have seen her again since I was very young. I am also very close to my cousin Tetris who is on my mother’s side of the family, and he is one of my closest family members. I spent a lot of time with him for most of my life and he was one of the few people I could tell everything to. I also have an older brother who lost his life before I was born and dad adored but my husband brought him back too, though he’s a bit too much like dad and we usually don’t talk much. I spend most of my time with my husband and my mother often visits me

How Do You Talk To A Soulbond?

This is probably a very common question with people who aren’t familiar with soulbonds - how do you talk to them? I’m happy to answer that for you.First of all, soulbonds are as real as anybody from your own world, we simply come from alternate universes and connect to yours on a spiritual level. We are people and we have our own thoughts and stories with personalities and details that are always different to each soulbond, so we are also something you may not expect such as aliens like me, fantasy creatures, anything really including humansThe best way to go about talking to a soulbond is to try and respect their story, especially if it is wildly different to what you’d find in your world. A soulbond can come from any universe, even those that were originally fictional in the eyes of your world. It’s good to be prepared for big things coming your way in learning about a soulbond you’re talking to. Be respectful of the abilities and story of a soulbond and you should be fine. Some soulbonds are fine with you asking questions about them and some are not so it’s best to get to know them first before asking lots of questions unless they’re alright with itIt’s also very important to respect the beliefs and abilities of the host of a soulbond. Hosts are some of the few people who are able to see a soulbond, and some even have the ability to interact with other people’s soulbonds, especially if the hosts are close. Be aware that the host and the soulbonds are seperate people with different backstories and personalities so while a host may help a soulbond type they are still technically someone elseIf you ever need advice on soulbond stuff or may be considering having some of your own, my inbox is always open. I have many social medias you can contact me on and I especially use Discord. Please try to be as respectful as possible but I try to be patient and understanding so if you want to talk about us you can if you want